Tuesday, April 29, 2014

8 Weeks Postpartum

I've been thinking about blogging for the last few weeks and just now sat down to do it. It has been 8 weeks since the twins were born and I get questions all the time about how they're doing and how I'm doing. 

First of all, the babies are growing and healthy and as cute as can be! Little Asher has passed Celeste by, as I knew he probably would. They are filling out and so cute. I talked to Sara a few days ago and she sounds so happy. 

In a month my whole family will fly to Philly to see Sara, Jon and the babies. We are all so excited to see them in person again. 

As for me, I am doing well, life is getting back to normal. I went back to work two weeks after the babies were born, I could have taken more time but felt good and ready to get back. The day we left the hospital was difficult because I knew my part in this journey was coming to an end and that I wouldn't see this family for a while. Giving the twins to their parents was not hard, the bond I formed with Sara and Jon made it easy. I had the mindset the whole time that I am the carrier (not the mom) "Aunt Des" as I am now referred to. I loved the babies, I enjoyed the pregnancy, but in a different way than I enjoyed and loved my own. It was a different bond, but a bond nonetheless and knowing that I would continue to be in this family's life made that possible. 

We are enjoying a spring filled with soccer, t-ball and softball, the days are flying by and (being an elementary school teacher) I'm looking forward to a summer with my kids. They ask about the twins now and then, they're thrilled to get to ride on a big plane and see them next month. I will blog about the trip and post more pics. 


Asher and Celeste wearing their Iowa Hawkeyes outfits from Aunt Des and Uncle Johnny.